When I googled “tips on living with others” just now, my posts from 2008 and 2009 on that topic were the first two things that came up. Given that folks seem to be coming to me for this advice, plus the fact that most of us will live with one or more others for a [...]
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Tips For Living Happily With Others
March 17th, 2013 · 10 Comments · community, home & garden, relationships
Tags: appreciation·home·housemates·living with others·roommate
We’re Seeking A Housemate!
July 14th, 2010 · 4 Comments · sustainability
I’ve have had so many good experiences with housemates that I’ve never understood why the practice isn’t more common among people who are post-college — even here in Portland, Oregon, where reducing your carbon footprint is a fairly normal conversation topic. Our house is: Newly built, spacious, with lots of light Highly energy-efficient Housemate’s bedroom is 12′ [...]
Back From New Year’s Retreat
January 4th, 2010 · No Comments · home & garden, money, simplicity
Thor and I returned yesterday from our annual New Year’s retreat, which we take together each year, just the two of us, to go into our deep inner lives and look at our intentions for 2010. This year we
The Win-Win Of A Work-For-Rent Arrangement
May 14th, 2009 · 18 Comments · community, home & garden, lifestyle, sustainability, work
Update on September 14, 2013: Our most recent housemate who has been gardening in exchange for rent, Dan, has been a joy. I’m grateful for his good work, and his positive presence in the house. He’s 63, in contrast to our prior work-for-rent folks, who were recent college graduates. Who says that single people ought to live alone, or that [...]
Tags: carbon footprint·fun·happiness·housemates·urban farming
Laid Off: Not A Disaster If . . . .
January 14th, 2009 · 3 Comments · home & garden, lifestyle, simplicity, work
“I’ll need to move. I’ve been laid off.” Our housemate Scott’s face was unusually sober. He had been happily working as a carpenter here in Portland for a company that did home remodels. “The work has dried up because nobody is signing new contracts. My boss cut me loose yesterday.” My eyes welled with tears. [...]
Tags: consumption·economics·family·government·housemates·jobs·laid off·life·Oregon·stimulus package·thrift
Top Ten Tips For Living With Others, Part II
January 4th, 2009 · 2 Comments · community, lifestyle, relationships, simplicity
Note in March 2013: Also see here for my updated tips on living with others. Everything I read about the year ahead of us refers to a tighter economy, including widespread job losses. Interestingly, I haven’t seen any buzz about a very sensible economic option if you’re one of the millions of Americans who lives [...]
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Top Ten Tips For Living With Others, Part I
December 24th, 2008 · 6 Comments · lifestyle
Note in March 2013: Also see here for my updated tips on living with others. It’s a modern notion that people should live alone; this is the first time in human history that millions are doing it. Living alone is also expensive, both in dollars and in the earth’s resources. I lived alone for five [...]